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Abusive Relationships are the new craze?

Abusive Relationships are the new craze?

 


 

So i've been hearing alot of stuff about Abusive relationships and I'm completely shocked with what i've heard.


Fact:  1 in 11 high school students report being physically hurt by a date.

I'm sorry but if you truely love someone you wouldn't hurt them, you wouldnt leave marks on them, You wouldn't harm them.

Abuse can be physical, emotional, or sexual. Slapping, hitting, and kicking are forms of physical abuse that can occur in both romances and friendships.

PEOPLE get out of abusive relationships, you may be scared but once you do it you'll feel great, everyone deserves someone to treat them as good as they can, not to be hit and slapped. There is NO love in hurting someone.

If you are in an abusive realtionship seriously get out or your days could be limited.

Don't be scared to tell someone, there are people who will help you! there are places you can go!

Abuse has no place in love.

But on the other hand, there are reasons us people who have never been abused, dont understand why they abused person doesn't just leave.

 A large part of one's sense of self-worth and self-esteem is likely to have been invested in the relationship so they don't feel like they can actually leave.

 

But if you know anyone who is in an abusive relationship seriously do everything and anything you can do to get them out, even if they don't want your help, continue to give it to them.


And not only does domestic abuse happen with women, it occurs with men too.

So after this blog im feeling good for expressing my opinions.

So now i want to hear yours.

What do you think about abusive relationships?

Why do you think that people stay?

Are you in an abusive realtionship or have you ever been?

 

xox,

brittany butcher


Posted on 06/20/2008 1:50 PM Visits: 36
brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 3:08 PM
crapabyss said:
This is certainly right. Buzzed.
thankss
lenibox: 06/20/2008 3:17 PM
its happened to me before and its scary. dunt want to talk about it much. but its better to be safe and get out of it no matter how much you love them. x
peques: 06/20/2008 3:20 PM
wow i'm happy that you posted thid =] i agree this things are bad and people who have been in thos type os situations need help. i guess the human mind is sometimes wired or just dosnet want to think
brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 3:50 PM
people stay becuae they're scared or multiple other reasonsmy cousin was killed by her husband a few years ago, but from what we know he had never abused her previously.people need to get out of abusive relationships right away and talk to someone, anyone.
im sorry for your loss :[

And i agree.
brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 3:51 PM
lenibox said:
its happened to me before and its scary. dunt want to talk about it much. but its better to be safe and get out of it no matter how much you love them. x
Im sorry you had to go through that, i can only imagine how horrible it must have been.
And yes its better to be safe and either leave him or make him get help
brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 3:51 PM
peques said:
wow i'm happy that you posted thid =] i agree this things are bad and people who have been in thos type os situations need help. i guess the human mind is sometimes wired or just dosnet want to think
I agree i don't know what is on the abusers mind when he or she is hurting the other.
flyingbunny: 06/20/2008 3:59 PM
This blog is a great idea, but I apologize, I can't read through it entirely.
It's a personal thing, not what you wrote just what it's about.

Anyways, I'm glad you're getting this out. So many people don't realize how big a deal it is.
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brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 4:05 PM
shinobi89 said:
i think people stay in abusive relationships not because o any craze or fad they don't leave because the abuser has a holsd on them pschologically as well aas phsically, they get inside the mind o the victim and one minute they can be nice next minute they change into a monster and they use emotional black mail, this makes the victim to scared to leave and they become trapped its not that they don't want to leave its just that the abuser has such a hold on them they eel they have no way out.
Mhmm i agree with you too.
brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 4:05 PM
killinme said:
i hate when that happens, it always happens to the kindest, innocent ppl,=[[[, it makes me sick* thros up*

Mmmmyes it can happen to anyonee.
brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 4:06 PM
This blog is a great idea, but I apologize, I can't read through it entirely.It's a personal thing, not what you wrote just what it's about.Anyways, I'm glad you're getting this out. So many people don't realize how big a deal it is.=

its okayy.
And im glad i wrote about it
elleave: 06/20/2008 4:17 PM
wow. thats really great that you decided to talk about this issue.
i'm not sure why people stay. i personally think its cuz they have insecurites
and dont believe they deserve better.
xx
brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 4:21 PM
elleave said:
wow. thats really great that you decided to talk about this issue.
i'm not sure why people stay. i personally think its cuz they have insecurites
and dont believe they deserve better.
xx
mmm that could possibly be true, because the abuser could emotionally hurt the victim and make them think they are no good
Larz Loves Lauren: 06/20/2008 4:32 PM
I think adusive relationships are just away to feel like you're in control. It's really not the way to go. :/ I think people stay cuz they're way to scared to run away. I have alot of friends that have bin in abusive relationships and I always try to get them out of it. If you're in one, you should always find help. I have really never bin in an abusive relationship and I'm glad for that. :]
smellslikerain23: 06/20/2008 4:32 PM
I think this journal is brilliant . I'm glad someone actually decided to talk about this issue . I've been in abusive realationships . Not just one as a matter of fact . Not just as far as relationships either . I think that people stay , mainly because they love the person . I was idiotic enough to stay with my boyfriend , because I loved him . I was afraid of him harming my family ..
I think abusive realtionship have to deal with a lot of genitics too! - I could be wrong , but from previous realationships , that's what I got from them . Unfortunatley , some children grow up with abusive parents , and they are influenced by them to feel free to beat on people whenever they want . My last boyfriends father was abusive to his wife . He grew up the exact same way . He was abusive towards me , and his friends .
brittanybutcher: 06/20/2008 4:38 PM
I think this journal is brilliant . I'm glad someone actually decided to talk about this issue . I've been in abusive realationships . Not just one as a matter of fact . Not just as far as relationships either . I think that people stay , mainly because they love the person . I was idiotic enough to stay with my boyfriend , because I loved him . I was afraid of him harming my family ..
I think abusive realtionship have to deal with a lot of genitics too! - I could be wrong , but from previous realationships , that's what I got from them . Unfortunatley , some children grow up with abusive parents , and they are influenced by them to feel free to beat on people whenever they want . My last boyfriends father was abusive to his wife . He grew up the exact same way . He was abusive towards me , and his friends .
mhmm i agree with you like 100%
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